Ladies! 99 Ways To Celebrate Valentine’s Day With Your Man

Love is synonymous to giving, so on a special time as Valentine’s Day, you should do more of giving. Share your time, care, resources, and of course your love with that special person who makes your heart beat faster. These are just a few ideas to make him feel loved. Show your partner how truly special he is by surprising him on February 14, with a bunch of these ideas.

  1. Go to church together.
  2. Give a back massage.
  3. Offer a foot-rub – without asking for one in return!
  4. Fill up his gas tank.
  5. If he comes home after a boy’s night, even after mid night, welcome him with a kiss.
  6. Make breakfast in bed.
  7. Stay in bed most of the day – pajamas optional.
  8. Send your sweetie a sweet, short and sexy text or email.
  9. Take a late-night, hand-in-hand stroll.
  10. When your significant other gets home, be waiting in the bedroom wearing your favorite sexy lingerie or nothing at all.
  11. Plan a surprise outing.
  12. Send him a card with naughty write ups.
  13. Surprise him with that special something he has been coveting.
  14. Send flowers or cookies for no reason at all.
  15. Take his pet for a walk, (if he has any)
  16. Stock his fridge with his favorite beer and snacks.
  17. Drop by his house without calling. Don’t be shocked if you see something disappointing.
  18. Take a no-destination drive around town together.


  1. Sign up for a class you know he has been wanting to take together.
  2. Make up silly nicknames for each other that you ONLY call each other in private.
  3. Make a video collage of your captured memories together.
  4. Start a hobby together.
  5. Do something nice for his mother, brother, sister, etc.
  6. Allow him pick the movie this time.
  7. Make a special dinner for him.
  8. Serve him wine from your lips.
  9. Do chores or errands without being asked and without complaining.
  10. Put the toilet seat down.
  11. Leave a note on the bathroom mirror so he will see it first thing in the morning.
  12. Buy him a calendar and fill it with important dates (first dinner together, three-year anniversary, etc.).
  13. Have a romantic/sexy photo session done together or have sexy pictures taken of yourself and make a private album for him.
  14. Make a big deal out of the holidays.
  15. Scatter rose petals on the bed
  16. Snuggle for a while after sex – even if you are tired.
  17. Have a talk about the future and let him know that he is a part of it.
  18. Buy his favorite perfume, hid it somewhere for him to discover on his own.
  19. Declare the day, no call-taking-day. Let the day be exclusive to him alone.
  20. Take him home to meet your family.
  21. Make him propose to you.
  22. Go on a picnic.

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  23. Explore your adventurous sides together — do something daring that neither of you have tried before.
  24. Designate a place in his room as “yours”
  25. Volunteer together to take care of babies at the orphanage.
  26. Take him to an art gallery or art walk.
  27. Take him to karaoke and sing him his favorite song.
  28. Introduce him to your best friends.
  29. Walk with him arms in arms all through the day.
  30. Make him a special lunch with a note written on a napkin inside.
  31. Get him a subscription to his favorite E- magazine.
  32. If he has a business trip, or plans to go see the other girl, offer to drive him to the airport, so he doesn’t have to take a cab.
  33. Leave a sweet note on a post-it on his car windshield or steering wheel.
  34. Flirt with him.
  35. If he has been working out extra hard or dieting, compliment him on his weight loss or how big his muscles are getting.
  36. Rent some silly comedies and spend the night laughing together.
  37. Take a shower together.
  38. Offer to shave his face or ask him to shave your legs.
  39. Offer him the last bite of the your meal.
  40. Go stargazing. Bring a bottle of champagne.
  41. Try an activity that he loves.
  42. Get up early on the weekend and do some of the chores he has on his list.
  43. Laugh at his jokes.
  44. Compliment him on his new hairstyle, shoes, outfit, etc.
  45. Frame a picture of the two of you during a special trip.
  46. Ask his mother for the recipe to his favorite dish that she made him growing up.
  47. Take him to a sporting event for his favorite team
  48. Buy a little teddy bear to sleep with when he’s not there.
  49. Get his oil changed and his brakes checked.
  50. Replace all his undies with new and sexy sets.
  51. Buy him something quirky that shows how well you know him.
  52. Buy him a new tie.Valentine cookie
  53. Iron his shirts.
  54. Feed each other dinner.
  55. Sneak a sexy note into the pocket of his slacks.
  56. Kiss him when he leaves in the morning and when he gets home at night.
  57. Brag about him to his friends for something really macho that he does.
  58. Tell his friends how smart you think she is.
  59. Go on a bike ride.
  60. Baby him when he is sick.
  61. Leave lipstick kisses on the bathroom mirror.
  62. Go to the park together (even if you don’t have kids). Go down the slide, play on the swings.
  63. Let him teach you a new skill.
  64. Buy a little gift and surprise him at the end of a long week.
  65. Go clubbing together.
  66. Take a trip to the beach.
  67. Watch the sun set or rise together.
  68. Share the morning paper together.
  69. Grab him spontaneously and kiss him all over.
  70. Send a sexy picture message to his phone.
  71. Leave a note for him to meet at his favorite bar or club. When he arrives, do some fun role-play and pretend you are meeting for the first time.
  72. Wash his car for him.
  73. Do his laundry.
  74. Recreate your first date – then recall all the feelings you had for each other that very first night.
  75. Make a creative coupon book (free massage, free night out with the guys, etc.) without an expiration date.
  76. Book a couple’s massage.
  77. Plan a romantic getaway to a bed and breakfast.
  78. Dedicate a day to the one you love.
  79. Plan a surprise party for him.
  80. Be quiet for once and join him watch his favorite sport.
  81. Take out the trash.
Ajumoke Nwaeze
Ajumoke Nwaeze is a Creative Writer and Sensational singer, whose essence is to live, love and impact.


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