Dotun Lashes Freeze for Comparing Yoruba Girls to Igbo Girls, Freeze Responds

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Cool FM OAP, Dotun, AKA, Do2dtun is not happy about the comment of his colleague, Freeze concerning Yoruba ladies in comparison with their Igbo counterpart.

Read Also: Igbo Girls Are Better Wives Than Yoruba Girls – OAP Freeze

It all started when Freeze agreed with the statement of former Head of Sales of Smile Communications, now Sales Director at Internet Solutions, Chiekezi Dozie, who said anyone who wants to be a successful businessman, should marry an Igbo woman.

Dotun lashed out at Freeze, for making such a comparison based on generalization.

Dotun Replies

“We don’t eat from banters. Na food be that?  Ko kan aiye mehn! There are so many things we haven’t seen in our lifetime that we still pray to God to give us, we don’t find them in stereotypical statements, comments or opinions. It’s in the BANK.

“The word “it is my opinion” has been the most overused line in this day and age. Someone wants to defend something that is clearly stupid, unrealistic then it is allowed.

“Every man should have a boundary and if we must say all the things on our mind, na die be that. You are not what you write, you are what you do.

“When someone represents all of us and decides to lose the ball every time then you will know what I mean. Let’s all demonstrate what’s possible, create leaders and not followers. Aiye! kan lo wa …. am I allowed to say this is my opinion too. Honestly, nobody cares! … pls who you epp? You don baff? ???? No time.#DemonsOfAllTribeMatter.”

Dotun and Freeze Feud

Now, Freeze has responded again. Read below.



“Dear @do2dtun, I just saw your write-up and I must say, it did come across as somewhat disrespectful. However, like you clearly pointed out, we come a long way & the respect is mutual.

“Let me start first by defining a cognitive bias called the ‘Negativity bias’ Where people tend to pay more attention to bad news — and it’s not just because we’re morbid. Social scientists theorize that it’s on account of our selective attention and that, given the choice, we perceive negative news as being more important or profound…..

“I didn’t in anyway say Yoruba girls are dirty or disrespectful, I only said Igbo girls are cleaner & more respectful. If you didn’t have this Negativity bias against me, you probably won’t see the argument from the angle you did.

“If I say that Bill Gates is richer than Dangote, have I in any way said Dangote was poor? Hell NO! We ask for freedom of speech and democracy, but we can never achieve either, if every opinion shared is turned into a ‘hate’ statement or a ‘racial slur’.

“I opened up a discussion after a post I saw on Chiekezi Dozie’s page, discussing the same thing my neighbors were arguing about all afternoon, and I asked for contributions, which I am sure you could have done a little less dramatically, but hey, I guess you were upset. In my write up, I clearly stated that my opinion is based on my university and young bachelorhood experiences.

“I cannot undo my past and I cannot ‘Un-live’ my experiences, if I had an opportunity to, maybe I could be of a different opinion, but you can’t unring a bell, they say. For the sake of those who missed my initial point, here it is again, when viewing a situation, let’s be objective because sometimes we bring out trouble that was never there in the first place.

One love bro!

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“My initial write I kinda agree..especially since I am Yoruba myself…From my ‘little’ experience, gathered during my university days and early bachelorhood and with body count on both sides, (before I gave my life to Christ), I can, through my own experience, say that Igbo girls are so much cleaner, more respectful, value marriage more, less argumentative and problematic, treat husbands . . . “

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